I'm not debating here, you're asking how we feel, I tell you how I feel.
It is just me probably. And I have the chance to know already that i'll get all the help I need right here independantly of this chatroom. Maybe someone else can wonder, so I hope my statement can reassure too.
Edit: read the edit and lol actually yes it helps without the you-us thing. I would still freak out but hey you gave me enough good advices so I don't have to get there