I don't know if this is reasonable and even possible: When an addon registers a panel, could you add a button to the default addons enabling/disabling menu to be taken to that addon's config (of course only if it's enabled and has been registered with the proper name)?
Something like
Code:
Addons [x] Load outdated addons
[ ] Disabled Addon
[x] Esohead [Settings]
[x] Some other addon Outdated [Settings]