[sirinsidiator]

In ESO the journey is the goal. Listen to quest dialogs, talk to NPCs, explore the world! Rushing to the "end game" will make you miss everything. Don't start installing addons or reading build guides before you even play. Just let it all come slowly and enjoy the experience. You can change everything about your character at any point later on, so there is no pressure.

EDIT: Only exception is the alliance you choose in the beginning when you create the character. If you have friends you may want to play PVP with, you'd have to pick their alliance or you will need to create a new character later.