http://www.esoui.com/downloads/info1...Reminders.html
http://www.esoui.com/downloads/info1...tomTitles.html
I want to propose a compromise, since there are two wildly different points of view here and I don't want this to descend into something toxic.
Those two addons above will disable the libraries that are presumably so offensive. Let's see if they end up being popular at all. If they end up being popular, then the devs can use that information to evaluate if the libraries are doing more harm than good and either deserve to be removed or disclaimers need added.
If the addons above prove unpopular with the rest of the communtiy, then OP et al, please just use them yourself and let the poor devs be.