Addons are usually single functionality/related functionality. You're looking for 3 addons.
I'm not sure what you mean by autolooting, but if you're just saying you want to be able to interact with something and have it automatically take all: that's a game setting. If you want some sort of zero interaction, radial automatic collecting of everything: not possible.
For read books, you get a notification every time you find a new book already. No notification means already read. But if you're running around collecting lore books then a pin addon does help. I suggest Map Pins for an all-in-one pins solution.